Find Love After 40! You're Older, Be Wiser!

Life is filled with transitions and sometimes women over forty find themselves starting over in the area of love. Perhaps it's due to the sudden and unexpected death of a spouse, or maybe you might just be someone who has never ever seemed to have much success finding true love. You might even be someone who has spent the last couple of decades focused on your career or taking care of loved ones. Either way, the question at hand is where does this process begin?

So, you're ready to start a new chapter in your life, and falling head over heels in love is the top of your to do list.
Personally, I congratulate you on your courage. There is a lot of discouragement surrounding getting back into the love game when you are a fabulous 40+ woman, who is actually seeking marriage.  I salute the women who still have the faith to believe that Mr. Right is out there waiting. After all, where's the fun in doing all the great things you've been looking forward to doing at this place in your life, if you are all alone, all the time?  But perhaps like so many other out of practice daters, you may be at a loss about how to go about finding love in a way that suits a woman of your age, grace, and caliber.

In spite of being older and wiser, finding love can still be a scary thing, especially if you have not had a first date in over twenty or even thirty years.  It can also be exciting and something great to look forward to when you have a prospect in mind, or the hope of meeting a few.

However, woman's intuition tells us that excitement paired with the loneliness of having been single for a while or having been in an emotionally void relationship for the last few years, can be a time bomb waiting to explode. So in order to stay sober minded, it's wise to do your due diligence when it comes to preparing yourself to win at the love game.
 There's a saying that goes,"There's no fool like an old fool."and truthfully speaking, no one wants to look like an old fool.
However, nothing is more telling than a 40+ woman who makes the kind of bad choices with men, that you'd expect from a love struck teenager. It screams, "I'm older, but I haven't learned a thing!", and it can cost you the respect of your family, your friends, your adult children, and even your prayer group.
So if you are older and you want to ensure that you are making better choices when it comes to who you will give your love to, you might want to consider some of the things that come into play after the pixie dust wears off of all new relationships.
After all, this is your chance to make a fresh start, a new beginning, and it's your chance to experience more happiness than you ever have before, so you don't want to allow the blinding rays of premature love or lust to bog you down with someone who is destined to cause you more stress and misery than happiness as you embark upon this wonderful new chapter of your life.

So I say, don't be discouraged or fearful. "Go ahead, follow your heart to find the kind of  love that makes you feel A-L-I-V-E!
However, I would say,  "Be a smart woman about it, don't neglect to equip yourself with plenty of common sense to take along with you for the ride!"
New love can feel like a terrific high, but nothing can send you crashing down like realizing that you made some bad decisions while thinking with, and being lead by your heightened forty plus sex drive, and not your "mature woman's wisdom!"
Equip yourself with the power to do things much better this time around!
I've created some wonderful tips and guidelines in my latest teaching material "How to tell if he's the one".
It's the perfect resource for women who are seeking to know what to look for in a man, when you want a fantastic husband, and a good marriage that will last.
The objective of this teaching is to help you change your life for the best, rather than adding to old feelings of unhappiness. You will discover the key things to look for in a man who has the type of quality character that can make a woman of substance happy.
These great tips and enlightening information is based on what I've learned from working with single, married, and divorced clients, as well as experiences of my own in my eighteen years of marriage. You can reap the benefits of all of these great lessons that I've listed and explained in this priceless 32 point checklist.

Again I say, "Enjoy life, Be happy, Be Healthy, Find True Love, but before you do, may I suggest that you try some relationship coaching to help you prepare yourself to get the kind of love that you truly desire."
I've put together some guidelines that will show you how to easily spot the qualities of a man who is worth falling for!

This coaching tool will get you inspired and prepared for your exciting journey to meet YOUR Mr. Right.
Just click here to learn more about "How to tell if he's the one", on my Life Coaching Website where you can get the tools you need, so you can learn privately and at your own pace!.